Will You Let Energy Serve You?

Calling all Mages! In over 20 years of facilitating healing and change with people and bodies, there's one approach I noticed that wasn't always working the way it could. Well meaning people, including myself, were using various techniques to clear their issues or limitations, but certain issues kept coming back. You can clear your crap 'til the cows come home, but if nothing much changes, what's the [...]

A New Beginning With Your Body

Thirty five years ago when I was a young mom at age 22, and pregnant with my second child, I never thought THIS would happen. To be sure, I’d had crazy doctors before, like the naturopath who predicted my uterus would “explode” (his word) and I’d be barren if I didn’t take his "extract of beef uterus"pills. To add to the weirdness, he also told me all [...]

Are You Making Your Problems a Big Hairy Deal?

How bored are you? Do you ever exaggerate the story of your life/day/weekend as a big hairy deal? Just so you can have something interesting to talk about with your friends or keep boredom at bay? In other words, do you have to make something sound more dramatic and problematic than it is in order to fit in or to entertain yourself? What I've found is that [...]

The Biggest Lie About Vulnerability

Have you ever thought vulnerability was a weakness? Or if you’re vulnerable you will get hurt? Do you have evidence to “prove it” that when you were once open and vulnerable, someone stabbed you in the back, cheated on you, lied to you, hurt your feelings, or took your money?   That vulnerability is a weakness is simply not true and I’d love to clarify so that [...]

What Are You Tolerating in Your Life?

One of my favourite topics is creating. Likewise, what gives me a rush is when the act of creation dynamically changes something on the inner or outer levels that you have been tolerating. Did you know that a major block to creating is tolerating? What are you enduring that's been slowing you down? All those tolerations, as simple as a button missing off your favorite shirt, to owing library [...]

You Are Not Too Old, And It Is Not Too Late

You are not too old and it is not too late. These timely words from poet Rainer Maria Rilke branded me almost viscerally the first time I met a woman I’ll refer to as Dorothy. It was 1998 in Salt Lake City, where I was a dancer in a showcase performance of sacred dancers from all around the globe. One of the dances that took my breath away [...]

Being Vulnerable Without Giving Up Your Authority

Working as a body coach and hands-on body healer, I ask to be vulnerable with my clients. Funnily enough, being vulnerable doesn't come to me as easily as I had thought. However, what I've noticed is when I ask to lower my barriers, it helps get me out of my preconceived notions about me, about the person, and about what will unfold during the session. Likewise, I [...]

When You Define Your Body, You Confine It

How many ways to define, label and describe your body have you created? Have you decided how much it should weigh? Or how stressed out it is? What about the size and shape of your nose? How many notions do you have about how your body should, would or could function, only if...? The problem with defining anything is that you confine it to the box of [...]

Shopping at Crapco For The “Less-Than” Life

3 life stories you might be listening to, telling and buying over and over again. I can’t afford it. I don’t have the time. I’m not feeling very well. These 3 excuses are available at Crapco and they go on sale often. Insider’s report: Once upon a time, you were uncomfortable. It was so awkward, painful and annoying. You looked around and no one you knew was [...]

Do You Admire Others More Than Yourself?

Do you have a HERO or HEROINE? Is there someone you admire? What are the qualities in them that you admire or aspire to be like?  Remember the 1980’s movie classic, When Harry Met Sally? Sally faked an orgasm in a restaurant and an older woman watching, said, “I’ll have what she’s having!”  A few years ago I met a delightful person who was “bright and shiny” [...]

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